学会闭嘴，学会多听，细听，反复听。学会赞美与肯定，不要轻易反驳，只要不侵犯利益与原则。这样你才会让人喜欢与很快融入。Learn to shut up, learn to listen more, listen more, listen more. Learn to praise and affirm, do not refute easily, as long as it does not infringe on interests and principles. Only in this way can you be liked and integrated quickly.