吹灭别人的灯，并不会让自己更加光明；阻挡别人的路，也不会让自己行得更远。我们要学会赋能对方，成就对方，站在对方的立场上，补齐他的短板。Blowing out someone else's candle won't make yours burn any brighter; blocking someone else's path won't make you walk any farther.We should learn to empower others, help them succeed, stand in their shoes and make up for their shortcomings.